Teri Rhodes- a teenage mother’s opinion
I got pregnant at 16. I was terrified. Terrified my parents would disown me, terrified that life as I had planned was over, terrified that the boy I had sex with would reject me. None of that happened. We did keep my pregnancy secret for as long as we could, but when I came clean, I recieved NOTHING but support. I can understand Terri’s decision to hide her pregnancy. But….that is where my understanding ENDS. The coroner reports that the baby lived 10 minutes “outside the womb”. In whatever manner, Teri killed her baby. Be it by accident or with malice, Teri took her child’s life. We aren’t talking about a first trimester abortion. Full term, viable infant. DEAD. Stuffed in a garbage bag whilst Teri took a shower. She deserves the harshest punishment our laws allow. But the guilt that will eventually haunt her for the rest of her days should be the true punishment. I hope that every time she hears a child cry, she remembers the child she murdered. I hope that when she eventually gets out of prison, she makes the smart decision to not have any more children. How can she trust herself? No matter what was running thru her head that horrible day gives her the right to take her child’s life. In this day and age there are HUNDREDS of groups that offer counseling, pre-natal care, adoption alternatives, abortion informtaion. In our own city, the Women’s Care Center offers counseling, and adoption services as well as many other services to young mothers. It comes down to this….Teri had a choice. She CHOSE to murder her child.
September 22, 2007 at 6:23 pm
You are so right! I am a person who has a very liberal outlook on life…I am against capital punishment…I am pro-choice….but you know, in this case, I don’t know what punishment would be harsh enough. This girl was no 12-year-old…she was apparently bright…she studied biology, for God’s sake….and yet she did this horrific, unbelievable thing. Sorry…no mercy for Teri Rhodes.
September 23, 2007 at 12:02 am
M. Ann- yes there will be great debate on what would be the proper punishment for Teri. I am also pro-choice, liberal, and against capital punishment. But I am also the mother of 2 children. This often changes your perspective on things like capital punishment and realted subjects. If it were up to me, Teri would rot. Her life should be traded for that of her daughter’s.
September 28, 2007 at 9:47 pm
I, for one, am praying for Teri. There is no excuse for what she did and she deserves whatever punishment comes her way. But I pray that someday she finds new life — and feels cleansed by the sweet, forgiving grace of God. She would have a powerful story to tell frightened young women who feel trapped, with no way out. Her horrible decision could someday change the lives of other women. Therefore, just as we desire grace and mercy in our own lives, we must accept that someone like Teri is eligible for the same gifts from God — if she asks for them.
September 28, 2007 at 10:52 pm
James, Thank you for praying for Teri. Someone should, but I myself cannot. I have a difficult time understanding where God was is the 10 minutes Teri was strangling the life out of her precious newborn. I have a difficult time understanding where God, her parents, the father of the baby, and even her friends were, when she got pregnant, or when she hid the pregnancy, or when she was Googling “herbal abortions” and all the other disgusting garbage she searched for on her computer in the weeks before she killed her child. NOTHING in this world gave Teri the right to do what she did. I hope that God can remind her daily of what she did to that baby.
December 4, 2008 at 4:15 pm
This whole case has totally amazed me from the beginning. I feel she had special treatment. Never spent a day in jail, before the trial. Went back home with the parents, went to school and worked. And now her attorney is trying to get her sentence changed…. VERY, VERY WRONG!!! The decision has been made, and it should stay. This young lady should go to prison for a very long time. Which is what the sentence was, 9 to 18 years. She murdered an innocent baby. There are so many people that would give anything for a child.
They have her on suicide watch, oh well, she did the crime. Now it is time to pay the price.
This crime is no different then the school shootings, pizza bomber, drive by shootings….. it was a conscience decision. Time to pay your dues, little girl………
December 5, 2008 at 8:55 pm
Big thanks to DA Brad Foulk for keeping wanton criminals like Teri Rhodes off our saintly streets. I’ll feel safer walking to my car tonight just knowing there’s one less young stressed out pregnant girl out there …
February 4, 2009 at 1:43 pm
@ lunch….
There are a lot of young stressed out pregnant girls out there, and stressed out pregnant women.
The vast majority of us don’t choke our newborns out and stuff them in garbage bags….
The punishment was too lenient. Had she choked out another adult (say, a classmate that was a bully) and hid the body, she’d be out there for first degree murder…
March 10, 2009 at 12:07 pm
lunch admin– a murder is a murder. and while we’re at it, i’m going to call a spade a spade and the truth is you’re an idiot. I’ve seen you post the same response elsewhere, so it’s time to come up with some new material, slick. foulk’s job is to prosecute on behalf of the people. our society has laws, she broke the law–and now it’s time for her to pay for her actions. judge cunningham was far too easy on her sentence if you ask me. and for the record, i think miss rhodes is hot, i’d still hit it.
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